Thursday, October 6, 2011

Love.

Here's some of my favorite things in Africa:
1. Jackaranda trees in bloom (I've blogged about those before)

2. Frangipani's in bloom. (Those are my favorite!)


3. Rainy Days...the kind where its raining so hard on your tin roof, you can't hear what's going on inside the house.


4. Mangos
5. A bazillion other things.

But, guess what I got this week...My LAST week in Africa?

The Jackarandas are in bloom, the Frangipanis in MY yard are in bloom, early mangos are out in the market, and...
Dun-du-hun!

It's pouring raining this morning!!!
In the MIDDLE of dry season!!!

Thanks God.
You are so loving.
And I know that you didn't make the flowers bloom for me, or the mangos, or even the rain, but thanks for allowing me to see all those things before I leave. 

4 Days until I leave Mzuzu...
Until I drive away for the very last time...
Prayers are greatly, greatly, appreciated.


Monday, October 3, 2011

A Hospital Visit

"You go to the hospital to die." -
That's basically what I've been told before about African hospitals. I saw one in Uganda that just broke my heart.


We have government hospitals and private ones here in Malawi .
I got to visit the government one several times now over the past few months.
However, my first visit there is the one I want to share with you.
Austin Chirwa, My Gardener and Day Guard
A couple of months back, my gardener got very sick. He had severe stomach cramps, a horrible headache, and was vomiting. This had been going on for a day, but he wasn't getting any better, so Mama Chirwa came to tell me about it, and I decided we would take him to the hospital.

Okay, now let me explain this part: at the hospital, there is a great shortage of staff. There may be one doctor for the entire hospital and mostly clinical technicians act like the doctors and even do surgery. So, there isn't anyone to clean your bedding, fix food for you, or give you any extra help.
So, when you go to the hospital, and are admitted, you have to have a guardian with you.
They will cook your food, sleep on the floor next to you, wash your bedding, etc.

Okay, so Dada Chirwa, Mama Chirwa and I packed up in my truck and we went to the hospital.
I parked the car and came back expecting them to be waiting in line, but they were ushered into a examining room very quickly. A nurse got a wheelchair for him to sit in, and a "doctor" order for him to get x-rays.

By this point, I was starting to get a little worried. Chirwa was in so much pain and would just keep calling out "mama." I've never seen him like that.

Because I'm the only white person on the entire hospital grounds, we were definitely making a scene wherever we went, but I was hoping it would be good attention and maybe give them incentive to help us out a bit more because they were with a white person.

We finally came to the x-ray ward.
There was 1 nurse and about 3 technicians standing around the desk talking. No one else was in the room.

We walked in and, of course, they all looked at me trying to figure out why I was there.

Chirwa is just sitting there in the wheelchair, but then he says, "I have to vomit."
The doctors just look at Mama in disgust and say, "Well! Do something about it!"
So, she grabs here chitenji (a piece of material that we wear as a skirt) and holds it as he vomits into it.

I was infuriated! These nurses and doctors were doing nothing to help him! There were standing there looking at us like how dare we vomit in their office! And before the "doctor" talks to Chirwa at all, he comes over to me and wants to know how long I"ve been here and where I work. At the moment, I really just wanted to stomp on his toes and tell him to worry about his patients! :)

Finally, a nurse goes and finds an old large pill bottle and Chirwa carries that around as his vomit container.

We get x-rays and then finally get moved to men's ward where he will be admitted until he is better.

By this time, I was just in a panic. Chirwa was vomiting blood, he was rolling around on a gurney in agony, and just seeing the condition of the hospital wasn't helping any.

So here are Mama and I just standing there, still holding onto the vomit-filled material, watching as they try to inject an IV into his very dehydrated body. 

The ward is a big open room with 16 beds lined up in it. 
All the beds are filled. So, a nursing student goes and gets a mattress from another room and throws it on the floor. There is no pillow, one sheet, and that's all we get.

Mama Chirwa tells me to go back home and get a toothbrush, a pillow, an extra blanket, flip-flops, food, and anything else I can think of for Dada Chirwa. She will be sleeping on the hard ground next to him through the night. (I found out later, she didn't sleep at all.)

I bring breakfast cooked over the fire by their 11 year-old girl the next morning at 6 am. 
She is also taking care of the 9, 5, and 2 year old.
As I was sitting on the floor by him that morning, there was another man on the floor across from him.
You could just tell there wasn't much time left for him...
When I came back that night to bring supper, he was gone and you could hear his mother wailing in the next room.

That is a really eerie feeling. 
The following day, enough beds opened up for Chirwa to get one.
A crowd of people were around another guy and later in the day, he is gone from the bed and they tell me he has died.

Fast forward 3 days. Mama Chirwa stays with him his whole stay. The "doctors" have come by to see him once in his whole stay. 
The only thing he's been given is his IV of glucose.

God has healed him, and now he can come home.
They have no clue what was wrong with him.

As bad as I was feeling about this hospital, these doctors and nurses are doing the best that they can with what they have access too.
They get the toss-off medical supplies, if they get them.
There are too many patients to give adequate care to all of them.
And plus, it makes you put more Faith in God than in the doctors who care for them.

By the way, when I spent a day in the Labor ward, I found out it costs $2.50 to have a baby in the hospital.
Yep, your hospital fees are $2.50.


In America, we have so many privileges that we don't even realize...things we think are our rights has human beings that most other human beings don't get.

And THAT is going to be the hardest part about coming home.

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Happy Birthday Anna Marie!

Really, can you think of a better way to celebrate your birthday than with a Tangled theme?
Yeah, me either.

Anna Marie's birthday isn't until November 1st, but she was awesome enough to celebrate it one month early so I could be here.

She decided to go with the Tangled theme with costumes! She and her mom made her dress from scratch. I got my skirt from the used clothing market for 5 bucks, and had a tailor make my top for 4 bucks. Win!

Anna Marie is incredibly talented and creative, so the party was not lacking. :)

Here is everyone who dressed up! 

I love his unicorns and the porcupine quills were his "horns."

The Mime Guy and Mother Gothel
Flynn Rider and Rapunzel



Decorations that Anna Marie drew

And of course we watched Tangled. :)
We also had paper lanterns strung up, decorated Pascal cupcakes and drew noses on Flynn posters.

Anna Marie, thanks for letting me be a part of your special day. I had so much fun. Even though I won't be around for your 17th year, I'm so happy I was around for most of your 15th and 16th years. :)

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

How Lucky Am I?

This
Nkhata Bay on Lake Malawi
+

This

My view from the table


+

This
My Lunch

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This
Playing with the kids
+

This
=
One Epic Day


*Note:
It can also cause this:
(yes, it hurts as bad as it looks.)

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Is it Bad if the Elephant Starts Charging?

I'm single mom again this week.

Eric and Lisa are off galavanting (aka following up with doctor check-ups) in Kenya, so I have all 4 of the kiddos by my lonesome. I'm staying at their house in the guest bedroom which has been lovely.

So, things we've done this week:
1. watch movies
2. make/eat caramel popcorn
3. watch more movies
4. I've given 2 of the boys haircuts. (!!)
5. watch even more movies

(Eric, if you are reading this, read "movies" as educational nature documentaries.)

I was trying to think of other fun things to do, and I heard that our local Wildlife Conservation Association was hosting a day trip to Vwasa Marsh for only $13 a person. Supposedly, there are some elephants there, but my friends had never seen any whenever they've gone. They said we would probably only see hippos.


(Sidenote: I think its pretty cool that in America, when we babysit, we take our kids to the zoo; but in Africa, I take my kids on a safari. whhaaaaat.)


My expectations weren't high, but at least we would get out of the house.
They were taking a bus, so at least I wouldn't have to drive.
And, I would only have the 4 Laffoons kids so look after, so it wouldn't have to be constantly worried about them at a nature reserve.

----Now insert everything African that can happen in this situation----


So, come to find out, when the South African friends heard we were going to Vwasa, they thought...hey! we should send our kids too! Lauren can just watch them all!

And that's how I ended up with 7 kids to keep up with.

And when we arrived at 6:15am at the meeting spot to get on the bus, the driver hadn't thought ahead of time to get diesel.

And that's how I ended up driving the 7 kids in a borrowed small pick-up truck the 3 hours to Vwasa Marsh.





We finally arrived, tired in and in need of a toilet, but the coolest thing happened. Almost as soon as we parked the car, right in front of us, we saw this:
 

A whole family of elephants crossing the river! 
It really was a great surprise, especially because we didn't think we were going to see anything really.
And older couple who have hopes to being and run Vwasa Marsh also came with us. They were great with the kids, talking to them about all the animals and birds.


Then, he tried to help us get sausage fruit down from the Sausage Tree:

See the sausages up there hanging down?

One of the nature conservationists came to give a tour around the park.
Guess who got to drive the car around with 9 kids in my car?? ME! There is something so awesome about driving your own car around a game park with no fences. 
I felt like the Disney World African Safari Driver. 
(spoken in British Accent) : "We've got to find the poachers! Let's go friends! Hang on!"

We were getting ready to go down into a big ditch. Downshift to 1st, and hang on!


We were about 2 minutes into the drive, when we come around a corner, and I slam on the brakes because we ran into another family of elephants!

It was so cool! They were RIGHT THERE! And in the big tree, there were a bunch of baboons running and jumping around them. Then, a warthog came up and joined the fun.

It did get a bit old after a while though. We can't move or make lots of noise, or else the elephants will charge us. So, we had to sit there in a hot car for about 45 minutes until they elephants finally decided to turn around.When we did begin to creep ahead, one of the male elephants decided to turn around and start charging us.
Don't worry, we escaped in time. (Remember, I'm a professional Disney Safari Driver)

We continued on our journey and saw MORE elephants, hippos, Kudu, antelope, Bushbuck (ironically enough eating bushbuck jerky as we drove).....
Aww, baby hippos!

Totally beats the zoo any day.

Kudu

Kudu. Kind of looks like a pretty llama, huh?
....and the most annoying of the day, Tsetse Flies.

Okay, so maybe going to the zoo is safer because you don't have the threat of a fly biting you and getting African Sleeping Sickness.

Did I mention they swarmed the car and we had to constantly try to kill them?
Did I also mention I got bit? 
So, if I don't blog again, I may be asleep with my sleeping sickness.

So, since I was The Disney Safari Driver, I felt I needed to do all the right safari type things...you know...to track the elephants.

I investigated the elephant footprints.

Jeremy kept on the lookout for them.

I even smelled the elephant dung to see how recent they had been there.
However, we could never figure out quite where they were. 

But all kidding aside, we really did see probably around 100 elephants that day.
When we came back after the safari to each lunch, there were about 3 different herds either eating or swimming across the lake. It was amazing. There weren't any fences between us and the animals. So cool!
See the little baby elephant in the front? When they got into the deeper water, they pretty much disappeared to our eyes,  only to pop up again further down! 

You can't tell, but this was a Bull, one of the biggest, with is nose sticking out as a snorkel. :)

So, all in all, a really good day.
No body was trampled by elephants, and I came back with all 7 kids that I left with. 

I now also have something to put on my resume for working at Animal Kingdom.






Monday, September 5, 2011

Saba and Sheroze

My two students that I have been tutoring over their summer break is coming to a close this week.

I have seen them every week, spent countless hours with them at their home, and have gotten to know them very well.

The month of August is Ramadan, so they were fasting most of the time that I saw them. However, whenever I went to their house, they were still so kind as to make me food and let me eat it right in front of them while we worked on school.

We played Scrabble almost any chance they can talk me into it, and I've forced them to write and read when they haven't really wanted to.

I've gotten to see their mom's wedding video, and tasted authentic Pakistani food, and watched them say their prayers.

Most importantly, I've gotten to at least share with them what I believe.

Pray that God uses that in the future.

They were very scared during the Riots. Their store was not broken into, but their sister's was. They had to flee their house because people started jumping their fence to throw stuff at their house.

She called me that day and asked me to pray for her family.

So, you can pray for that too.
Pray that their hearts will be open.

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Road Trip!

We have two missionary families in a small little town called Mzimba about an hour south from here. And when I say small, I mean small. They come to Mzuzu to "go to the city" and "go out to eat." heh.

Both families are so sweet and precious, and I have been promising since I moved here that I would take some time to go down there for a visit.

Finally, I had the time, but no diesel, so I decided to take a bus down there.

I splurged and paid $6 for one of the really nice buses. Its like one of those tour buses you would take to youth summer camp.I was pretty excited. Plus, no animals are allowed on those. It was a really nice trip down there.

I had to be at the bus station at 6:30am and Eric was going to take me. That morning started off with a bang because right before Eric came to pick me up, they caught a thief at their house....
....stealing the plastic chairs off their porch....
....he also had curtains in his hand, but claimed those were his...
Oh Malawi.

Anyway,
The first day I hung out with the Robertsons. They have two young kids, so I spent most of my day playing games, hearing the latest sports updates, playing catch, and trying not to catch the cold everyone seemed to have. (I did not win that battle).


The next day, I spent with the Rudds. They are an older couple and from the south. So I had the sweetest tea I have put to my mouth since I left South Carolina.  AND GUESS WHAT I HAD FOR BREAKFAST?! Grits, Bacon, Eggs, and Biscuits (with grey horse, dad!). Oh my gosh! My southern accent came out just being around them and eating all that homey food.


We had girls afternoon, and I ate my weight in desserts and watch chick flicks. I was in heaven.

I was planning on leaving the next morning, but that bus wasn't quite as nice as the first. It was only $3, but  jammed packed and standing room only. Plus, it stopped at every possible place to pick up someone/drop someone off, so it would take a lot longer.

I decided to wait for the next bus that came 8 hours later, and I'm so glad I did.
The Rudds took me for a picnic to the top of this little mountain. It looked over all of Mzimba. Gorgeous! It really made me think about how much I'm going to miss this place.


As you can tell, I climbed on everything I could in flip-flops. 

Thank you Mzimba for such a wonderful time!

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